Castle of Sensual Hierarchy

Castle of Sensual Hierarchy Discord Server

(Rules of Conduct/Getting Set Up)

Welcome to Castle of Sensual Hierarchy. W/we are a female-based D/s community, specializing in the Erotic Arts, with a competitive edge. Here is how to get set up to be able to have permission to view all public channels:

1) Read the rules channel, and then simply click on the thumbs-up 👍 emoji at the end.
2) Verify your membership role in the ⁠D/s-role-verification channel by using the drop down menu.
3) Next, please select all your D/s interests in the interests channel by clicking any pertinent emojis.
4) Then, click the emoji that represents your birth sign our zodiac signs channel.
5) Last, please request permission by posting a pic of your visual model in the model registry channel, then you are good to go!

Here is the invite link to go back to our server rules channel.
Enjoy the fun! {Below is a copy of our server rules that you can save as a reference point by bookmarking this link.}

Rules

  1. Members must be at least 21 years of age. Members should identify as female, for purposes of role-play.
  1. Show respect for every member. Treat others how you would like to be treated. Drama will be met by a kick or a ban. Take personal arguments private. Don’t personally attack someone in public. Respect toward the moderator team is mandatory. No bullying, harassment, or aggressive behavior. CSH has a zero tolerance policy toward racist, sexist, homophobic behavior. Please avoid religious or political discussion in the public channels.
  1. Dominance and submission culture and protocol should be observed and will be strictly enforced. Try to refer to all Dominants as Miss, Mistress, Goddess, where appropriate, and spelled with Capital letters. Subs should be referred to with lowercase letters.
  1. Roles: please verify roles regarding D/s persona, interests and zodiac in the appropriate channels by reacting with emoji. This will help other members understand how to refer to you as well as finding those with common interests.
  1. Before taking a sub, a Domme, or a girlfriend, communicate with anyone who might be affected. For example, the last person who previously owned the sub/last girlfriend. Register all such relationships in the #relationship-registry channel! The Sophia Elite Family is the premiere D/s family on the server. Wanna join us? Simply speak to a member, denoted by Sophia Family role on their server profile.
  1. Unless already approved, please do U/us the courtesy of listing your proposed model (your role-play avatar) in the #model-registry channel!
  1. Try to avoid bombarding a new person and overwhelming them. Be friendly but cordial, and allow the person who introduced them to the server to acclimate them.
  1. Playing in public channels can be fun, and is encouraged, as long as it doesn’t disrupt more important happenings, such as public ceremonies or an admin speaking to the membership.
  1. Each member is limited to one account only. CSH does not encourage multiple accounts.
Castle of Sensual Hierarchy

Castle of Sensual Hierarchy is now LIVE!

Big News: after much research and consideration, I’ve created an interest-based new server: Castle of Sensual Hierarchy 🏰. This is my new project! If you are interested in erotic dominance & submission especially with a competitive hierarchical edge, then this will be the place for you. I will place an invite here for all those interested in checking it out: Join us here.

Future of PGW

Dear members,

Apologies for having some tech issues recently, as well as not keeping things up to date, but the site is now fully back and updated. After 10 great years, and much reflection and research, I have decided that the traditional function of PGW must come to an end. I will be keeping the site online, but gradually phasing out the chat and chatroom functionalities, and dedicating this space to becoming more of a directory, a place to keep our profiles and content, as well as to meet and connect, rather than a place to chat. PGW will still have site mail messaging, but the chatrooms and chat functions, while very much improved from the old system, must be closed down within the next few months. Recent trends dictate that people would rather enjoy chatting on apps such as discord. Soon I will be constructing a new community on discord, where chatting and chat groups work much easier, and are thriving; it’s just too difficult to keep chatrooms active on a website these days, and God knows we have tried! So please, by all means, keep posting your photos, update your profiles etc. here, but you are very welcome to come visit our discord server and reconnect with us there: https://discord.gg/B3wTmeFy

Our PGW discord server will also soon change, as we create a new community, which will be dedicated to Erotic D/s, which has long been the central interest of members here. I am working on some technological advances that may enable this site to be directly connected to our discord server, so stay tuned for that! I am very excited at our new prospects and am sure everyone will enjoy what lies in the future for us!

Thank you all for 10 amazing years on Planet Girl World.

Love you all,

Cathy xoxo

‘Load More’ feature added to feed

Hey guys! Just wanted to mention that I became aware of the issue on mobile where the feed just kept on loading and some of you never got to access the widgets at thew bottom of the mobile version of the site. Features such as Online Members, Latest Photos, My Profile, and Upcoming Birthdays, were not able to be seen, but for a split second. Well, now there is a Load More button at the bottom of the activity feed so enjoy!

Site Mail and Chat icons fixed

Just wanted to mention that the confusing issue with the two envelope icons has been fixed now. So, from now on, remember, you can check and use site mail messaging system by using the mail or envelope icon on your profile toolbar (left side on desktop), and you can view and use your chat messages by utilizing the chat bubble icon. Any other issues or suggestions just let me know! Enjoy and tell everyone you know about PGW 2.0!

PGW 2.0 is live!

After so much rumor and many announcements, the naysayers have been finally put to shame, as PGW. 2.0 is now here. I told everyone there would be a new shift toward a more amicable culture here, and we did it. I told you we would have a new chat application and we now have it installed and functional. I told you the site would be totally revamped and it is. I am very happy to announce that our new sandbox is now here and ready for you all to play and have fun. Everything works way better than it ever did before, so don’t hesitate, tell all your friends to come back to Planet Girl World and make it your home again!

The next step is doing some marketing and recruiting; bringing lots of new faces here, to our all-female version of Facebook. Tell a friend! Ain’t no stopping us now!

While PGW is functioning now and most of the new features are installed and most of the basic designing is ready, there will be quite a few more tweaks and changes, so stay tuned. On the downside, we had to let go of all our old media, ie: old photos and videos you guys may have posted in the past. Lots of old posts, polls and discussions may have been lost, but its time to forget the past and make new memories, which is what PGW 2.0 is all about!

One thing to note: from a slight glitch in the migration process, we lost the height listing in member profiles, so would you all kindly fill in your heights by editing the about section of your personal profile on the site? * Any issues or difficulties please leave a comment here and we will get on it ASAP! Thanks!

See you on the site,

Cathy

New Improvements: Discord Chat Access

We now have a widget in the right side bar where you can see who all is on our Discord Server at any given time, as well as a link to join us. Additionally, I created a new site page so that you can seamlessly enter our Public Chatroom on discord as well. All you have to do is look at our site menu, under chat rooms, and click on Public Chatroom (Discord) and it will present you will a full page (as long as you have installed the discord app for desktop course). In case you have trouble, the direct link is here.
MANY more improvements are on the way, so buckle in!

Important: Please read!

As I have talked about before, PGW needs some improvements and I have been diligently working on some goals to make out home better. First and foremost, it’s time for us to move to a better, faster server that can accommodate the traffic and space we need to properly function. This means a slight increase in our biannual costs, and I have been waiting until it was time to pay the normal bill, which is always May 12th. So, ladies, some of you have already helped out for this bill, and we are already at $210 thus far, which is appreciated but we have to make the $600 goal by then. So, I am asking all of you please help me be able to pay this server bill. It will mean so much to your experience here, and then I can get to work on all the new enhancements and improvements we so badly need here! Anything helps, be it $5 or whatever. You can use our donation page here. if you do not have paypal or know how to create one, you can also send a donation via Amazon Gift Card (US only) to ve*************@gm***.com. We really need everyone to pitch in this time, whatever you can afford. Then we can relax and get to work!

Thank you ALL so much for being part of this move!

Sincerely,

Cathy Sophia, Team Panda 🐼

Operation: Image Compression

MEMBERS: The PGW Admin account will be running in the background – a plugin is working on all our images here to make them compressed, to save space., for our move to a new server. It will remain open until the work gets finished. Do not attempt to DM that account, as I will not be monitoring it. You may see that account open for several days, until the work is completed. Robots, y’all!!! 🤖 🤖 🤖

Cathy’s Top Stressors Regarding PGW : 2019

PGW is am amazing site and Emerald and I are very proud of it, however, of late some issues are dooming this place not to grow and thrive, so here are my concerns, and why I am feeling like I need to take a break…

1. Anxiety about Chat and Site Attendance: Way too many times, I am forced to be the one person who is tasked with pushing people to the site and off other platforms. People can say they are “busy” or “working” but I am sorry it’s bullshit if they are on kik, trillian, FB, or elsewhere. It is 2019, the internet is the internet, the site is fully mobile. People claim they are doing all they can, but I rarely see anyone but me pushing attendance. Lately I see some mentioning they are heading for the site, that helps but is it really enough? If people are simply not regularly attending the site, it, as a grass-roots social network, will fail. This costs money and time out of My and Emerald’s real lives. It must grow or die. Members need, not only to want to BE here but to care about consistency here. With more than 500 active members, there should never be only 1-2 persons in the Public Chatroom. If this problem were aided by membership I could relax a lot more here. 

2. Community Culture is Failing: As I have expressed time and time again, the only thing that separates PGW from just about any other place is community and family feelings. Having actual continuity from day to day, where you can connect with other members, and share experiences makes this a place that has real value. If that is not the case, this site has no specific value at all, as there are plenty of other platforms where people can just “message” each other. Often many of you will proclaim to me “I am only here for you, Cathy!” This is actually the antithesis of what I want here. Anyone who knows me knows I only care about family, groups and community, and want members to care about each other, not just about Me or themselves. 

3. Delegation of Authority is Failing: For the last 5 years Emerald and I attempted to ask members of the Sophia Family to help out with moderation in chat, technical support, introduction and acclimation of new members, as well as putting out social fires, but we found no consistent support to be found. Then a few months ago we decided to appoint a specialized, smaller team of admins to perhaps focus on these issues, hopefully persons that really cared and would not mind being dedicated to helping. I delegated different issues at times, but the general hope, was that these 2 people would cover for us when we could not be present on the site. Unfortunately this too has failed, which is upsetting. I understand that people have real lives, but I guess I am disappointed that appointing two extra people was not enough, or that these people were unable to handle the task. I have added one more person, but I am at am impasse now, as Emerald and I ended up having our real lives totally disrupted and its just really unhealthy. 

4. Members are continually feeling isolated: I cannot tell you the amount of times I hear private complaints about members feeling sad, lonely, neglected, and ignored. I also feel that way maybe 50% of my time spent on the site, so If I am feeling this way, rest assured many of us are. We have tried to talk about reaching out to others, not expecting nor waiting for them to reach out to us but nothing has been changing there. For a real paradigm shift to occur, members need to forego the defensiveness and stop worrying about blame. Simply take the first step! I do it all the time, and you can too. Why are people simply sitting and waiting for others to do the work? Also: if you are aware someone is feeling sad or hurt, why can’t you just speak to them? The “Clique” thing also keeps coming up, and if we assign blame, we could easily say “ridiculous! there are no cliques!” and leave all the people who feel left out to stay in the lobby, but again, this needs to be about the site! By slowly and gradually reaching out to people who stay in the lobby, you absolutely CAN dispel the perception of cliquism, and bring them in to the community at large. People who feel invited and part of something will be less inclined to believe there are cliques. 

5. Members who are already trying, don’t know how to help: This is very simple, yet not always obvious. If you feel that you are already fulfilling all of these tasks, there is still a bigger task to work on: encouraging and helping to organize OTHERS to handle them as well! Either we sink or swim as a group. This is all of our responsibility. Do we want this place to work or not? If so, we have to stop worrying about who is doing more, and do ALL we can! God knows I do! Let’s remember, I don’t make ANY money here, the donations I do acquire go to my bills, which are paid from personal funds. I have no monetization plans in place yet for PGW. While the site is generally getting hits, the attendance is still not showing real growth: we gain a member, as a member stops showing up. If all these other issues were handled, then sure I could feel positive about the future of the site and perhaps invest even more in that future. When I started this site and we only had a few members, I believed i could handle everything myself, but this is no longer the case. I have to admit: I need help.

6. Members being non-direct: or just lying: I have stressed over and over the need, at least in the Sophia Family, for members to be honest, open, and direct. Holding truth back to spare feelings always backfires in the end. By attempting to be fake to preserve a person’s feelings, you will hurt them worse, once they learn of your deception. I don’t know many times i can say this until people start buying in. But this is paramount: a huge problem in this community, and let’s face it, all online communities. It’s just way too easy to try to lie, cover up, and hold back truth until the absolute last moment, when you are about to be busted. My problem here is I am far too good at detecting deceit, and this kills me inside, knowing my so-called “friends” are willing to lie to me or hide things for any reason. It makes me sick in side, and saddens me. Members are asked to handle squabbles directly with each other, but how often do you guys just vent behind backs or even organize a lynch mob against another member? Recently we dealt with that, Emerald and I, and it was nothing less than shocking and disgusting. I could not believe we were being blamed for one member who was acting out, and then given ultimatums about forcing that member off the site. We must all grow up, yes I know it’s hard, and go directly to the offending party, not to others, because then it always ends up in MY lap, and that’s a horrible reality. That is a major issue in terms of me not being able to function here. 

I am probably forgetting something but since I heard some Sophia Family members claiming I am not specific enough, there is an outline of things that need to be fixed or addressed here. 

Thanks for reading and I welcome your comments and suggestions, thanks!

Cathy, Team Panda, PGW